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« on: September 26, 2007, 10:48:17 AM »
Gabe and others, I would like for the men to study and pray about husbands and adultery.  Namely my husband.  I am a christian lady and my husband says he is a christian man.  I have posted part of the story in "The Healing" thread.  Sorry I don't know how to link it.  My question is since he has committed adultery and is very much embracing a new life with this new girl even though he is still in our home for the time being how am I supposed to pray? I would take him back if he wanted to turn towards me only and work on the problems that brought us to this.  I can tell you that he was many times verbally abusive and, I am embarrassed to say performed sexual acts that aren't right.  This is a very private thing and hard for me but, I want to know if it is better to let him go because he never nurtured me or gave me comfort and basically I've been a single mother for many years now.  His job has always come first no matter what it was.  As Debi Pearl says though she finds the blame is usually equal and I can tell you that as far as my part, I have handed him off on a silver platter. Not intentionally but  in all the ways Debi Pearl describes in CTBHH.  I was very ignorant and foolish.   He has had other affairs that I didn't know about until recently.  I should say one nighters.  I don't know how much information you need, but neither one of us were happy and weren't meeting the others needs.  Now he is with someone who works with him and knows what paramedics have to go through and they have a lot in common.  Is it okay for me to hope that the Lord has something new for me or is this selfishness on my part.  LIke I said I would love to have my husband make a complete turn around and walk away from that and come back to us.  I believe God can do it but it's not looking like that is going to happen.  I've desperately needed someone to be here for me all these years and I don't know how to feel about that.  I really need some guidance.  I'm sorry if this seems obvious to everyone else, but I want to know what God's word says about this.  I've been reading in 1 Cor. 7 and 1 Peter and Eph.  And praying for a complete reconciliation to put into practice all I've learned but he doesn't seem to be thinking of anything except making plans to be with this girl.  Thank you for any help.
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