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[denim&lace]

Praying here too.

[amy3js]

Praying. 

[andiclare]

Prayers for you khix.

[khix]

Thank you all.

I'm just struggling with feeling like I'm completely responsible for making my marriage good or bad....like my dh doesn't have to do anything for me or the marriage, and I'm the only one that has to change or be better or work at something or make sure I'm responding correctly, etc, etc.  I'm struggling with feeling like it's all on my shoulders.  I'm weary....so weary.  I know it's got to be devil working here.  Dh is doing some of the same things he did a few years ago, and I'm struggling to hold on to the growth I've done...to not be bitter & angry.  I love him, and I want to serve him, and support him, but sometimes I feel like I'm an enabler...like dh is taking advantage of me...sometimes I feel like there is nothing to support.  I'm struggling to find things to be thankful for at the moment.  Please continue praying for me.....for dh too....please, God, lead dh to make some changes too....not to blame him or say that I don't need to make more changes....but I just need some help here....I'm weary.

[Monita]

Prayed for you Khix!  I have been feeling so many of the same things.

I need prayer too.

[khix]

God's been working...praise!  Thank you for your prayers, and continue praying!  So many things going on right now....

[ridgerunner]

I just found out that my company will be starting layoffs in my department.  We're being told that if we have an opportunity to transfer to do it because our product may get canned.  I don't know whether to apply for a transfer or not.  Part of me wonder's if I get laid off if maybe that will be God's way of giving me an opportunity to stay home, even though I know that my husband is adamantly against that.  He will not tell me what he thinks I should do, just says to do what I want.  Please pray with me that God will give me a clear sign of whether I should stay and wait to see what happens, or apply for a transfer.  Thanks!

[civilwarwidow]

Hi all, 

It's eviesmom aka civilwar widow.  Last time I posted I was pregnant with twins... well i carried them to 38 weeks, it was great.     On October 20th one of our twins Holly Grace went to be with the Lord at only 3 months.  My heart contiunues to ache in grief.  She apparently died of SIDS in her sleep.  Many of you know because of my post here and on welltellme of my struggles to conceive due to pcos and other issues.  I have developed 3 hernias due to how large I got with my twins.  I went to have  bloodwork and I found out I am pregnant.  I am so happy, but so sad still.  Any advice or encouragement?  Chloe the other twin is only 6 months.  Please pray for me, my hubby, Evie, and her twin Chloe.

Thanks again,
Heather

[BJ_BOBBI_JO]

Praying for yall.

An extra special hug goes out to Heather. Im so sorry for your loss.

[andiclare]

Praying for both of you, Ridgerunner and Heather.

[ForeverGirl]

I just found out that my company will be starting layoffs in my department.  We're being told that if we have an opportunity to transfer to do it because our product may get canned.  I don't know whether to apply for a transfer or not.  Part of me wonder's if I get laid off if maybe that will be God's way of giving me an opportunity to stay home, even though I know that my husband is adamantly against that.  He will not tell me what he thinks I should do, just says to do what I want.  Please pray with me that God will give me a clear sign of whether I should stay and wait to see what happens, or apply for a transfer.  Thanks!

Sandi,

A good horse trainer will teach a horse to follow his rider's leading.  If the horseman isn't going anywhere, the horse will stand still and this is "following."

In my perspective, your husband is (maybe unintentionally) leading you by standing still. I'd recommend standing still with him. He may think that he is putting the outcome in your lap and forcing you to lead your own life. Don't let this become your assumption too... As you carefully do as he leads (even if that is doing nothing) he will see that you are going to follow him whether he is moving or not.  You can even say (if it seems appropriate), "Well, I guess I'll just follow your lead and wait and see what happens." Then pray that God would bless your waiting and following with His will, whatever that might be.

my two cents... Beka

[ridgerunner]

I just found out that my company will be starting layoffs in my department.  We're being told that if we have an opportunity to transfer to do it because our product may get canned.  I don't know whether to apply for a transfer or not.  Part of me wonder's if I get laid off if maybe that will be God's way of giving me an opportunity to stay home, even though I know that my husband is adamantly against that.  He will not tell me what he thinks I should do, just says to do what I want.  Please pray with me that God will give me a clear sign of whether I should stay and wait to see what happens, or apply for a transfer.  Thanks!

Sandi,

A good horse trainer will teach a horse to follow his rider's leading.  If the horseman isn't going anywhere, the horse will stand still and this is "following."

In my perspective, your husband is (maybe unintentionally) leading you by standing still. I'd recommend standing still with him. He may think that he is putting the outcome in your lap and forcing you to lead your own life. Don't let this become your assumption too... As you carefully do as he leads (even if that is doing nothing) he will see that you are going to follow him whether he is moving or not.  You can even say (if it seems appropriate), "Well, I guess I'll just follow your lead and wait and see what happens." Then pray that God would bless your waiting and following with His will, whatever that might be.

my two cents... Beka

Thanks Beka!  Today 6 people in my department got fired and when my husband heard he specifically said "Apply for a transfer" so I guess I've got my answer.  It's going to be interesting because my manager specifically said "Do NOT apply for a transfer, we don't want you doing that." but of course I will be doing it anyway...

[Sweet E]

Hey everyone... There's a lot of things going on in my family right now, some that have been issues for a long time. Would you join with me in prayer?

1.  My Dad and brother have lost their source of income, and their business is in serious trouble. Pray that we would be relieved of the responsibility of this loss. I know my brother feels this "failure" keenly, even though it isn't his fault. It was his idea and he was the manager. My (unbelieving!) uncle is also invested in the endeavor and so that adds a great deal of pressure. Pray that God would clearly direct my Dad and brother and that we would find our provision in another way.

2.  We are in the process of building a house. Pray that we would have decent weather to work and the blessing of being able to complete it as frugally as possible.

3.  I have three siblings, all older than me, all mature adults, all still living at home.  We are wonderfully close and love working together... but this can cause tension and disagreement between us, especially when we are stressed. Pray that we would build each other up, and not respond according to our emotions. (Not always easy with four women in the house!  ) Pray that we would (Mom especially) stand behind Dad and follow his lead, and not be afraid or worried.

4. Pray for me... There are many other things behind the scenes. Pray that I would choose to follow and believe God no matter what. Please pray that my faith would not fail!!! I feel unusually attacked in this area.


I know that there are others here that have needs more urgent than mine. I'm praying for you all too. 

Thanks,
E

[ridgerunner]

Praying for you Sweet E!

[andiclare]

Prayers...

[Sweet E]

Thanks, everyone. I really appreciate the function of the body of Christ I find here... its so evident in you all. 

I have little update on request 1, which was...

My Dad and brother have lost their source of income, and their business is in serious trouble. Pray that we would be relieved of the responsibility of this loss. I know my brother feels this "failure" keenly, even though it isn't his fault. It was his idea and he was the manager. My (unbelieving!) uncle is also invested in the endeavor and so that adds a great deal of pressure. Pray that God would clearly direct my Dad and brother and that we would find our provision in another way.

The reason that our business was "failing" was that the bank that holds our business loan is not in the greatest condition and needed to cut half their loans. So ours was on the cutting block, even though we weren't in default or close to it. The only other option was to "self fund" which we had absolutely no way to do, seeing that we haven't reached the "income" stage of the project. 

Anyway, the bank has finally worked its way through all its loans and at a meeting with my brother and uncle last week one of the bank officers said that our project is one of the best that they have and that they would love to continue working with us. In other words, we have funding (and income!) again!!!  So exciting!!!

I am really grateful, especially for the fact that the loan officers were really impressed with my brother, and asked him how he had learned so much still being so young. Did he have a masters? An engineering degree? etc. So my (unbelieving) uncle was very impressed and came away saying, "Did you hear what they said? I have always thought you did a great job." So that was a great encouragement to my brother.

I would still like to see us relieved from the responsibility of the loan entirely, but hey! we have the rent money! I'm not complaining. 

Thanks everyone, for your prayers!

E

[Monita]

I need to ask you all to please pray for me.  I have been going through a very weird time lately and feeling pretty weak and drained in my spirit. 

We will be going on the road again this week.  We have been going on road trips alot in the last year and I need to be stregthened before we go again because my family needs this.  Our road trips are great fun and usually long but an adventure all the same.  What gets me stressed I guess is that we usually stay with Dh's family or friends and I am streatched beyond my comfort zone each time and always feel like I messed up.....talked too much, didn't talk enough, or said something really dumb.    I've always been a bit antisocial so these trips are really a test.  The women are usually difficult to be around, they have many problems and I am expected to hang out with them, so pray I am able to have the right words to say and that I know when to just shut up. 

Another reason I am a bit stressed about these trips is that they take me from home where all of my food and water supplies are, all of our "survival stuff" if you will.   I realize that it is is a lack of faith to feel this way so please pray for me as I struggle with this.  Leaving my "safe" home...LOL.

We plan to be going on another trip in May to the Rockies so pray that we find a good place to stay. This will only be our family. Yaayy!  Dh is also planning florida, hawaii and England...oh my!  So I need to be ready to strap myself  into the car or plane and be the best helpmet and mamma I can be.

Thank you for praying.

[denim&lace]

prayed for you Monita.

[Monita]

Thank you, I hesitated in asking but am glad I did. 

[denim&lace]

I'm glad you did too.

[Monita]

We are leaving tomorrow, thanks for your prayers! 

[Sweet E]

Monita,

I'll be praying for you; tommorrow especially. As a bit of a antisocial person myself I can understand your feelings. Extended family, as much as we love them, can be exhausting! 

Thanks for posting,

E

[uptrapperdansgirl]

 I need prayer. thanks for loving me and fighting with me! hugs

[herbalmom]

We are having major problems. God knows the details. Please pray for us as you are led. Love in Christ. ~herbalmom

Also, Bump on this- DH is still working on it & hasn't given up but it's a struggle for him. (The problems I mention above & this are separate issues)

DH is trying to quit smoking. He was using nicotine gum but it makes his mouth hurt so he's not using it much. He's smoked for about 40 years & he has a hard time quitting. He's tried many times but always ends up going back to it. Please pray that this time he will quit for good. TIA. Love in Christ ~herbalmom

[Monita]

We are back from the trip safe and sound.   I did not have the anxiety this trip that I usually have and though I feel that I stuck my foot in my mouth one too many times  and got pricked a few times and had to repent.....I  am thankful that I was able to and for the prayers. 
 It is so hard to learn to be socially graceful and a good conversationalist when you are thrust into the lions den ...so to speak.    It is alot of pressure.  But my pryaers are that I did no harm to my Dh and only brought him honor with my words and actions and if not that I will quickly learn from my mistakes and replace the wrong for right.     

Thanks for your prayers!

Prayed for Gods will in the recent requests here.

[herbalmom]

Bump- My family is under spiritual attack & has been for a long time but it seems much worse lately. Please pray as you are led- we can use all the help we can get right now. Thanks. Love in Christ ~herbalmom

We are having major problems. God knows the details. Please pray for us as you are led. Love in Christ. ~herbalmom

Also, Bump on this- DH is still working on it & hasn't given up but it's a struggle for him. (The problems I mention above & this are separate issues)

DH is trying to quit smoking. He was using nicotine gum but it makes his mouth hurt so he's not using it much. He's smoked for about 40 years & he has a hard time quitting. He's tried many times but always ends up going back to it. Please pray that this time he will quit for good. TIA. Love in Christ ~herbalmom

[herbalmom]

Bumping again- *sigh* Even more is happening & DH & I are worn out, discouraged & not sure what to do. We need protection, wisdom, mercy, etc. TIA. ~herbalmom

Bump- My family is under spiritual attack & has been for a long time but it seems much worse lately. Please pray as you are led- we can use all the help we can get right now. Thanks. Love in Christ ~herbalmom

We are having major problems. God knows the details. Please pray for us as you are led. Love in Christ. ~herbalmom

Also, Bump on this- DH is still working on it & hasn't given up but it's a struggle for him. (The problems I mention above & this are separate issues)

DH is trying to quit smoking. He was using nicotine gum but it makes his mouth hurt so he's not using it much. He's smoked for about 40 years & he has a hard time quitting. He's tried many times but always ends up going back to it. Please pray that this time he will quit for good. TIA. Love in Christ ~herbalmom

[freshisbest]

the storms are raging to be sure...for us too...and i applaud your dh for hanging in there. Chs Stanley reminded me this a.m. that God and the bible are our anchor when we are being tossed about. Ps 57 today.

[herbalmom]

Well, not exactly- didn't mean to give a false impression. Sorry.

DH believes God exists & believes that spiritual warfare is real but sits on the fence about getting serious with God. As I posted in this post, I'm much better at talking the talk than walking the walk & it hasn't chanced much since that post. That's a large part of my discouragement right now- 1 step forward, 1 step back & I don't seem to get anywhere.

Also, we have/had pagan/Wiccian family members (my mom before she passed away, stepdad, brother & sister) & oldest DS has played with P*kemon, Magic the Gath*ring game, other occ*ltic games, comics, etc all of which I know has opened doorways.

So it's a messy situation all around. DH is more discouraged about the situation from a problem standpoint than a spiritual standpoint although he has been praying a lot this week which is unusual for him. 

Like I said, we can use all the prayer we can get. TIA. ~herbalmom

[Homeschool_Newbie]

Herbal mom, I will be praying. God bless you!

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