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« on: August 02, 2009, 03:11:01 PM »

One of my biggest parenting challenges is the energy level and the loudness in my home.... I send my boys outside to play often, and try to keep them busy in lots of different ways.. but I don't always do a perfect job at it...Their playing gets so loud it hurts my ears... My Dh's nerves are getting fried, too.  I realize that there's 2 sides to this coin:
#1 God gave little boys the wiggles.
#2 Our ancestors set limits much higher, like the saying: Children are to be seen and not heard.

What are some boundaries you have set up within your home to help your kids get the wiggles out, but keep your ear drums from exploding? What about school time, have you found methods that work well for getting the wiggles out, but also squeezing in some learning? My 6 year old is my biggest challenge in this area. I try to do a little school, then send him out to play, but getting him back in is a challenge....and I'm not one to make him do lots of " school" either...


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« Reply #1 on: August 02, 2009, 04:52:10 PM »

Speaking of energy level,  my 2 year old just deleted my response- grrrr!!

First,  send him outside to work instead of to play.  Work will drain his energy faster and more effectively than play, and you won't have near the trouble getting him back inside again  Wink  Keep the jobs short so he doesn't lose interest.  I also prefer jobs that involve hard physical activity like weeding, carrying garbage, taking scraps down to the chickens (our chickens are far away and over a fence), piling up scrap wood or picking up sticks from the yard and putting them in the firepit...the list is endless LOL  I have found that not only does this wear him out a bit, it also makes him very proud of himself for having done real work.

In our house, mornings until lunchtime are for work, afternoons are for playing or free time.  Some days it's school work, some days it's yardwork, whatever I feel we need to do.  On an inside school day with my 6 year old son, we do a little reading, then we go do some cleaning upstairs.  Then we do some other schoolwork, then I send him out to do a job.  When he comes back, we do a little something else, then he does another job.  I don't really like him to be playing while the older kids are working.  Generally he does whatever I am doing during school time whether it be cooking or cleaning or whatever.

As far as boundaries go, I don't allow yelling in the house near where I am because it gets to me!!  If they want to be loud, they need to go upstairs or outside.  I also don't let them be too crazy inside- if I think it's getting to be too much, I send them out or stop the game. 

Well the same 2 year old just unrolled 25 yards of aluminum foil so I'd better go- got any advice about rambunctious 2 year olds?  Wink
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« Reply #2 on: August 06, 2009, 04:50:38 PM »

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First,  send him outside to work instead of to play

This is good Leah... thank you Smiley
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« Reply #3 on: August 22, 2009, 03:02:38 PM »

Duct tape.
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« Reply #4 on: August 22, 2009, 05:25:02 PM »

Duct tape.

Hee-hee...that's always my husband's first suggestion Roll Eyes
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« Reply #5 on: August 22, 2009, 06:48:39 PM »

LOL, it sure is tempting. Duct tape fixes about anything. Roll Eyes Cheesy
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« Reply #6 on: August 24, 2009, 05:35:51 PM »

Andrew (dh) suggested ratchet straps the other night...
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« Reply #7 on: November 16, 2009, 07:17:46 PM »

Well the same 2 year old just unrolled 25 yards of aluminum foil so I'd better go- got any advice about rambunctious 2 year olds?  Wink

I know its been a few months and maybe your 2 year old isn't as rambunctious, but my 4 and 6 year old used a dog leash to tie their two year old brother to the kitchen chair by his ankle to keep him from getting in their stuff.  It just happened a couple of days ago and the 2 year old was eating and didn't fuss until he tried to get down.  (The older two were long gone).   I was cooking and vaguely remember hearing the older ones' discussion of tying him up but it didn't sink in until he started fussing and I found him tethered to the chair.
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« Reply #8 on: December 16, 2009, 10:12:02 AM »

My Mom said she had to wear ear plugs with us!  Cheesy
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