7 x Sunday

February 08, 2012, 11:06:55 AM
Welcome, Guest. Please login or register.
Did you miss your activation email?

Login with username, password and session length
*
Pages: 1 2 [3]
  Print  
Author Topic: Prayer needed for damaged lives & relationships  (Read 9736 times)
AndysJess
Adept

Posts: 465


blessed to be my husband's wife


« Reply #60 on: March 27, 2009, 12:29:34 AM »

Please pray for me tonight.  I'm battling an old enemy I thought I had gained victory over.
Logged

Helpmeet to Andy 11 years; Mother to Drew, Dylan, Cullen, Avery and Sawyer.

Dylan..."Mom, I don't like it when you braid my hair cause when you take it out, my hair is too wriggly!"
rejoicing
Adept

Posts: 366



« Reply #61 on: March 27, 2009, 07:22:31 AM »

Praying for you right now!  Cheesy
Logged

rejoicing
Adept

Posts: 366



« Reply #62 on: April 11, 2009, 05:59:54 PM »

Things are REALLY getting ugly right now. Our family is under MAJOR attack! We could really use all your prayers right now! Thanks!!!  Cry
Logged

AndysJess
Adept

Posts: 465


blessed to be my husband's wife


« Reply #63 on: April 12, 2009, 04:54:59 PM »

Praying Rejoicing!!
Logged

Helpmeet to Andy 11 years; Mother to Drew, Dylan, Cullen, Avery and Sawyer.

Dylan..."Mom, I don't like it when you braid my hair cause when you take it out, my hair is too wriggly!"
denim&lace
Master

Posts: 1721



« Reply #64 on: April 12, 2009, 06:41:02 PM »

Praying ladies.
Logged
~esposita~
Master

Posts: 1035



WWW
« Reply #65 on: February 20, 2010, 12:16:01 PM »

OK.  I'm asking for some serious prayer for a young lady named Amy.  She has been married 4 1/2 years and has a 21 month old son.  She is in the battle of her life - a battle for her life.

The short version:

Amy was molested by family members as a child.  It was then that The Monster gained his foothold.  She is firmly in the enemy's clutches, but part of her still wants out.  Her husband is a godly man who loves her and wants her back (she left - and is in a very bad situation where she is being abused... but doesn't know how to 'get out'.) BUT he doesn't really have a clue about standing in spiritual authority over his wife; he doesn't know about headship. 

Anyway, I was able to talk with Amy last night and, surprisingly, she opened up and shared a LOT!  Basically, she is what I would consider borderline D.I.D (Dissociative Identity Disorder) and she needs deliverance.  DH and I don't believe deliverance can come, UNLESS she takes the first step by actually WANTING it.  I do believe that part of her yearns for freedom, but I also believe that The Monster is trying to obtain full control over her. 

So, please pray that she would be set free.  Pray that she would want to be set free.  Please pray that her husband will hang in there and gain an understanding of headship and stand in the gap for her, spiritually.  Please pray that we will have wisdom.

Thanks!
Logged

Jesus never gave an opinion.

My attempt at blogging:  The Carpenter's Wife
BJ_BOBBI_JO
Guru

Posts: 2344


I SEE YOU


WWW
« Reply #66 on: February 20, 2010, 12:58:01 PM »

Esposita-- Im praying for her and the situation. I know of a few people who are as you discribe your friend and they too were sexually abused. So often sexual abuse, expeically when it comes from a family member, can greatly damage and mess one up. Thankfully there is hope for them tho just as there is hope for us all. But sadly the walls of defense, hurt, bitterness, anger, abdonment, crushed self esteem and so on are very thick for many sexual abuse survivers. And like you said this makes a big giant open door for the enemy to come in and and reek even more havoc. I dont know the answers other then to pray and fast for people like that and then to be paient and let God take over because it will take time.

 Praying from here.
Logged
Beth
Master

Posts: 941


~Charity never fails~


« Reply #67 on: March 29, 2010, 03:39:53 PM »

  I think this prayer request thread is a better one for this


 
http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.kentucky.com%2F2010%2F03%2F26%2F1198373%2Fat-least-11-killed-in-i-65-crash.html&h=827f61bbb6358c3c97a17a9e63b61a9f

   The funeral is tomorrow. I didn't know the family. A lot of my friends did and will be traveling today and tomorrow. Pray for safety and healing for those left behind. It is expected over 1,000 will attend this funeral. Lots of travelers.
Logged

~Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.~
                                            1 Corinthians 13
herbalmom
Guru

Posts: 2965



« Reply #68 on: August 27, 2010, 10:16:42 AM »

We are having major problems in our family. Our 'kids' are teen & adult (the 2 adults still live at home due to finances, etc) & all 3 of them have 'jumped ship'. All 3 of them are passive/aggressive to what we want/rules/work that needs to be done, etc.  They all understand that everyone has to pull their fair share, etc but that doesn't mean they actually do the work.

We have made lots of mistakes with them & it's breaking our hearts. DH's long hrs (72-100 hrs a week for the last 4 years) & my chronic health problems hasn't helped any. DH hates the hrs but it's what the job required & he's always done whatever it takes to support his family. He got the job 4 years ago after 6 month of unemployment so it was a huge blessing at the time. Problem is, when you work hrs like that it's REALLY hard to find another job & with his age (50) most employers want someone younger. Doing whatever it takes to support the family is DH's way of showing love & everyone in the family knows that in their 'heads' but in the day to day 'heart' attitude it tends to feel like abandonment.

DD is the one that has us scared. Every since she turned 18 she's been putting herself into situations that can be downright dangerous. She's very much a daddy's girl, always has been & her love language is QUALITY TIME. DH's hrs has caused her to feel abandoned & she's angry about it. She's hurting so she's trying to keep up a tough wall & she's acting out but it's obvious that her heart is really with the family if we can just get through to her before she really gets hurt.

We're trying SO hard to turn things around. DH has cut his hrs by half & we're trying to work it out to be self employed. DH & I are praying that we can succeed with it & that it's not to late with the family.

DH & I know that we are under spiritual attack we're in a battle for our family's hearts & souls. DH is new to all this though so he's in 'spiritual boot camp' & the stakes are high. Please pray as you are led. Love in Christ ~herbalmom
Logged
lovetoreadmom
Master

Posts: 1002


Sweet and happy 6mo! :) DD#2


WWW
« Reply #69 on: August 29, 2010, 09:03:01 PM »

Praying for you and your family, herbalmom.  Please keep us posted as you feel comfortable and led to do so.

LTRM!!!  Smiley
Logged

Wife to Ron for 9+ years, and Mama to DS 7 y0, DD 4-1/2yo, DS 2-1/2yo, and DD 11mo
===============================
Lilypie First Birthday tickers
herbalmom
Guru

Posts: 2965



« Reply #70 on: October 05, 2010, 11:33:58 PM »

Update- DH is now working 1/3 what he used to- usually 2 days a week only although sometimes he goes in when they need extra help.  We're working on self employment together as a family but it's been rough going. Major illness, money troubles, etc & the troubles with the teens/young adults is still on-going. We do see glimmers of improvement but we've still got a LONG way to go. Please continue to cover us in intercessory prayer.

We are having major problems in our family. Our 'kids' are teen & adult (the 2 adults still live at home due to finances, etc) & all 3 of them have 'jumped ship'. All 3 of them are passive/aggressive to what we want/rules/work that needs to be done, etc.  They all understand that everyone has to pull their fair share, etc but that doesn't mean they actually do the work.

We have made lots of mistakes with them & it's breaking our hearts. DH's long hrs (72-100 hrs a week for the last 4 years) & my chronic health problems hasn't helped any. DH hates the hrs but it's what the job required & he's always done whatever it takes to support his family. He got the job 4 years ago after 6 month of unemployment so it was a huge blessing at the time. Problem is, when you work hrs like that it's REALLY hard to find another job & with his age (50) most employers want someone younger. Doing whatever it takes to support the family is DH's way of showing love & everyone in the family knows that in their 'heads' but in the day to day 'heart' attitude it tends to feel like abandonment.

DD is the one that has us scared. Every since she turned 18 she's been putting herself into situations that can be downright dangerous. She's very much a daddy's girl, always has been & her love language is QUALITY TIME. DH's hrs has caused her to feel abandoned & she's angry about it. She's hurting so she's trying to keep up a tough wall & she's acting out but it's obvious that her heart is really with the family if we can just get through to her before she really gets hurt.

We're trying SO hard to turn things around. DH has cut his hrs by half & we're trying to work it out to be self employed. DH & I are praying that we can succeed with it & that it's not to late with the family.

DH & I know that we are under spiritual attack we're in a battle for our family's hearts & souls. DH is new to all this though so he's in 'spiritual boot camp' & the stakes are high. Please pray as you are led. Love in Christ ~herbalmom
Logged
Cherika Four Seasons
Adept

Posts: 218


imagine-nations......


« Reply #71 on: October 06, 2010, 02:37:51 AM »

praying herbalmom!
Logged

two are better than one
www.allaboutlife.com.au
Beth
Master

Posts: 941


~Charity never fails~


« Reply #72 on: October 06, 2010, 04:25:22 AM »

praying for you....
Logged

~Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.~
                                            1 Corinthians 13
Homeschool_Newbie
Master

Posts: 867


The best of summer...


« Reply #73 on: October 06, 2010, 05:11:54 PM »

Herbal mom (((HUGS))) I will be praying... keep us posted
Logged
autumn jades
Learning

Posts: 20



« Reply #74 on: October 07, 2010, 07:59:26 AM »

herbalmom...we are in a similar situation with our children...painful to watch your children struggle while God works...such a helpless and desperate feeling sometimes...I will diligently keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Logged
Pages: 1 2 [3]
  Print  
 
Jump to:  

User

Welcome, Guest. Please login or register.
Did you miss your activation email?

February 08, 2012, 11:06:55 AM

Login with username, password and session length

Stats

Members
Stats
  • Total Posts: 243886
  • Total Topics: 21906
  • Online Today: 34
  • Online Ever: 437
  • (April 01, 2008, 03:09:36 PM)
Users Online
  • Users: 0
  • Guests: 33
  • Total: 33
TinyPortal v.1.0.6 beta 2 © Bloc